Recommended resources
We have found the following resources and organizations valuable in the work we do. This list is not comprehensive. If you come across something not included here you think we should know about, please reach out.
These resource links are organized by category.
Adoptee perspectives and resources
- Out of the Fog and into Consciousness: A Model of Adoptee Awareness - An open access journal article by Susan F. Branco , JaeRan Kim , Grace Newton , Stephanie Kripa Cooper-Lewter , and Paula O’Loughlin.
- Adoptee Reading - Books written and recommended by adoptees
- Adoptees Connect - Recommended resources for adult adoptees and adoption advocates
- Adoptee Mentoring Society - Community for adoptees to empower one another
- Adoptee Rights Law Center - Legal representation and advocacy for adoptees
- Adoptee Voices - Writing groups to support adoptee storytelling
- Adoption Knowledge Affiliates - Adoption education and support groups for all in the adoption constellation
- Adoption Mosaic: We the Experts - Panel discussions with adoptees sharing their lived experiences
- Adoption Savvy - Resource hub of adoption stories in various media
- Voices unheard: A Reflective Journal for Adult Adoptees - Writing prompts for 52 weeks, published by Boston Post Adoption Resources
- Dear Adoption - Collection of essays by adoptees
Adoption competent therapy
- Adoptee therapist directory - List of U.S. mental health professionals who are also adoptees, from Grow Beyond Words
- Screening questions - What to ask to find an adoption-competent therapist, from Grow Beyond Words
- Adoption-competent therapist factsheet - Finding and working with adoption-competent therapists, from the Child Welfare Information Gateway
- Therapy resources - Advice, podcasts, book, and courses, from Creating a Family
- CASE accredited therapists - National directory of therapists who have completed the Training for Adoption Competency (TAC) program through the Center for Adoption Support and Education
- Healing the Adoption Constellation - This database from Unraveling Adoption includes coaches, psychotherapists, hypnotherapists, art therapists, and others who work with members of the adoption constellation.
Adoption information - general
- Adoption Mosaic - Provides adoptee-centered programs and support services.
- Adoption Savvy - Resource hub of adoption stories in various media
- Adoption Unfiltered - Podcast with birth mom Kelsey, adoptee Sara, and adoptive parent Lori
- Boston Post Adoption Resources Center - Trauma-informed individual and group care, resources, and education
- Center for Adoption Support and Education (C.A.S.E.) - Adoption-competent therapy, case management, support groups, and education
- Child Welfare Information Gateway - Catalog of journal articles, evaluation reports, research studies, etc.
- Creating a Family - National nonprofit providing resources, community support, and training
- Grow Beyond Words resource guide - An all-ages list of books, websites, blogs, podcasts, documentaries, education videos, and more
- Oregon Post Adoption Resource Center - Connecting families in Oregon to community supports
- National Center on Adoption and Permanency - Research, advocacy, and support to help public and private agencies, organizational leaders, advocacy groups and other professionals serve families formed through adoption
- National Council for Adoption - Advocacy, education, research, and legislative action to ensure children everywhere have nurturing, permanent families
- Pact: An Adoption Alliance resources - Essays, articles, and videos on adoption experiences
Adoption reform
- Adoptee Rights Coalition - Advocacy to restore adoptees’ unrestricted access to original birth certificates
- Bastard Nation: The Adoptee Rights Organization - Advocacy for civil and human rights of adoptees
- Ethical Family Building - Safeguarding domestic adoptions through advocacy, transparency, and education
- National Council for Adoption - Advocacy, education, research, and legislative action to ensure children everywhere have nurturing, permanent families
Birth parent support
- AdoptMatch - Birth parent support resource database
- Adoption Savvy – Birth Parent Resources - Resources and information as well as counseling, coaching and support groups online and in person (Seattle-Tacoma and Yakima Valley)
- Concerned United Birth Parents (CUB) - Support for family members separated by adoption
- Knee to Knee - Post-placement support groups for birth mothers
- MPower Alliance - Support for birth mothers including in-person retreats
- Pact, an Adoption Alliance support group - Virtual support groups for first family members
Educational and training opportunities
- Adoption Learning Partners - Online training courses to prepare families for adoption, adoptive parenting courses, and training for professionals on adoption.
- Adoption Mosaic – Conscious Adoption: Parent Courses - Courses developed by adoptees in collaboration with other adoption constellation members to help support adoptive parents and families.
- Center for Adoption Support and Education webinars - C.A.S.E offers 600 FREE registrations to each Strengthening Your Family (SYF) Webinar with 10 webinars offered each year.
- Oregon Post Adoption Resource Center - Connecting families in Oregon to community supports
- Pact, an Adoption Alliance resources - Webinars, conferences, and trainings on various adoption topics
Parenting in adoption
- Adoption Knowledge Affiliates - Adoption education and support groups for all in the adoption constellation
- Adoption Savvy – Adoptive Family Resources - Support for families in every type of adoption
- Adoptive Family and Friends of Greater Seattle - Nonprofit support and educational group that includes both families touched by adoption and families waiting to adopt.
- Adoption Mosaic - Tools for adoptive parents made by adoptees
- Boston Post Adoption Resources Center - Trauma-informed individual and group care, resources, and education
- Center for Adoption Medicine at University of Washington - Medical advice and information for pre- and post-placement
- Family Equality - Advocacy for LGBTQ+ parents
- Lavender Luz - Blog sharing exploration and learning from adoptive parent Lori Holden
- The National Association of Adoptees & Parents - Promotes dialogue, understanding, and healing through education, awareness, and connection
Pregnancy options
- Planned Parenthood pregnancy options
- Power to Decide - works to ensure that every young person has the power to decide if, when, and under what circumstances to get pregnant—increasing their opportunity to pursue the future they want.
- Bedsider.org pregnancy options - Bedsider is an online birth control support network for women 18-29 operated by Power to Decide.
- Pregnancy Choices: Raising the Baby, Adoption, and Abortion - from The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists
- pregnancyoptions.info - This site has a workbook for pregnancy options and another for abortion resolution, as well as a list of resources for each option.
- All-Options Talkline - is staffed by trained peer counselors who provide nonjudgmental support for folks calling to discuss all pregnancy experiences, including parenting, abortion, adoption, miscarriage, and infertility. Calls from loved ones are also welcomed.
Parenting as a pregnancy option
- US Department of Health and Human Services - Information about federal, state, and local programs and services for their children and families.
- Child Welfare Information Gateway - Parenting tips and resources, and how to locate help in one’s local community.
- Zero to Three - Informs, trains and supports professionals, policymakers and parents in their efforts to improve the lives of infants and toddlers.
- Healthy Families America - Strives to provide all expectant and new parents with the opportunity to receive the education and support they need at the time their baby is born.
- Parenting Now - Parenting groups, support, advice and networking.
- Insights Teen Parenting Program - Provides positive options for young parents.
- Oregon Parenting Education Directory - Programs listed by county compiled by Oregon State University.
- UrbanMamas - A dynamic online community for mamas who share tips, advice, ideas, fun, challenges and more.
- Parent Helpline - Emotional support from trained advocates to become an empowered and stronger parent.
- Tufts Child and Family Web Guide - A collection of parenting websites that have been systematically reviewed by Tufts University and contain information that is grounded in evidence-based practice and research.
- Oregon Association of Relief Nurseries - OARN supports, strengthens, and develops Oregon’s network of independent Relief Nurseries to maximize family resilience and prevent the abuse and neglect of young children.
Abortion as a pregnancy option
- National Network of Abortion Funds - This organization builds power with members to remove financial and logistical barriers to abortion access by centering people who have abortions and organizing at the intersections of racial, economic, and reproductive justice.
- AbortionFinder - Comprehensive directory of trusted abortion service providers in the U.S.
- Brigid Alliance - Logistical support to help people travel for an abortion, with a focus on people past 15 weeks of pregnancy for whom it’s generally more expensive and harder to find a provider near home.
- Exhale Pro-Voice - Nonjudgmental after-abortion support
- The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists - Medical information about abortions
- Ineedana.com - Comprehensive and regularly updated guide to find abortion providers
- Power to Decide - Advancing sexual and reproductive well-being for everyone
- NAF National Abortion Hotline - Toll-free confidential consultation and abortion information
- M+A Hotline - Support for anyone experiencing a miscarriage and/or abortion
- Planned Parenthood - The nation’s leading sexual and reproductive health care provider and advocate
- All-Options - Free confidential talk line for women to discuss their feelings about pregnancy options without judgment
- Cedar Rivers Clinics - Providing compassionate reproductive health care, birth control, and abortions for over 30 years. Located in Renton, Seattle and Tacoma, Washington
- Trust Women - Dedicated to preserving reproductive freedom and providing a safe space for women to make informed choices about their health
- Guttmacher Institute - Sexual and reproductive health research, policy analysis and public education
- Ibis Reproductive Health - Information resources for sexual and reproductive rights and health
- Advancing New Standards in Reproductive Health (ANSIRH) - Reproductive health care and policy
- Ballotpedia - Abortion regulations by state
Adoption as a pregnancy option
- Birth Mom Buds - Peer counseling, support, encouragement and friendship for pregnant women considering adoption or who have already placed children.
- The Impact of Adoption - From Child Welfare Information Gateway.
- Birth Father Rights - From the Academy of Adoption and Assisted Reproductive Technology Attorneys.
- Considering Adoption - From Planned Parenthood.
Transracial/interracial adoption
- Adoption Mosaic - Information for adoptive parents from interracial adoptees
- Boston Post Adoption Resources - Transracial Adoption Resources
- Boston Post Adoption Resources - Free downloadable Ebook on transracial adoption
- Identity - Isaac Etter
- Pact, an Adoption Alliance - Resources and community for adoptees of color and the people who love them